Top 10 Tips for Mental Health Awareness Month

Be kind and compassionate to yourself and others.

You are not alone; 1 in 5 adults living in the U.S. has a mental health condition.

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and if you are living with mental health challenges, I want you to know that you are not alone. I've had the privilege of coaching, teaching, and facilitating wellness sessions over the past four years, and I can say that I don't know anyone who has not been affected by mental health challenges in some way. 

If this is you, you are not alone. 1 in 5 adults living in the U.S. has a mental health condition, and those numbers have continued to rise over the past few years.

Did you know ...

• Anxiety disorders are the most common mental illness in the U.S.; 48 million living with anxiety

• 21 million living with major depression

• Millions live with post-traumatic stress disorder, bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and schizophrenia.

• World Health Organization has recognized burnout as a disease;  2/3 of full-time workers deal with burnout.

• Chronic periods of stress and anxiety negatively impact the immune system. 

The good news is that there are things that we can each do to take better care of ourselves, build resilience, and feel empowered to take control of our health.  

Ten things to support your mental health

1. Be kind and compassionate to yourself and others.

   We are often more unkind to ourselves than to others. Our inner dialogue can be ruthless and damaging. Practice self-awareness of your words, and choose a different, kinder thought in the moment. Also, give others grace and compassion because we do not know what they may be going through. 

   2. Get professional help 

   Seek out a mental health practitioner. Many organizations now offer these services to their employees. Take advantage of available resources or seek a referral from someone you trust.

   3. Get some sunshine to boost your mood. 

   There is a reason we feel better when we're outside. When we get proper sunlight, our bodies produce vitamin D and release more serotonin, boosting our mood and helping both anxiety and depression.  

   4. Try to get 7-9 hours of sleep each night.

   Sleeping 7 -9 hours is ideal for us, and sleep and mental health are closely tied together. When we sleep, our body rests and recovers. When we do not get enough sleep, especially REM sleep, the brain doesn't correctly consolidate positive emotional content, which is tied to mental health disorders and their severity. Sleep is now understood as both a cause and consequence of mental health problems. 

   5. Surround yourself with loving people you can talk to.

   We all need a tribe of loving and supporting people to talk to and share our concerns, especially when they're tied to our health. So seek out friends, family, or professionals to talk to. 

   6. Eat well and take care of your gut health.

   The gut is sometimes referred to as our second brain, and our gut and brain are linked through the vagus nerve, which sends signals to and from the brain. It's incredible, but the gut can influence emotional behavior in the brain, and the brain can impact the bacteria in the gut. Therefore, nourishing ourselves by eating whole foods, especially fruits, and vegetables, those rich in omega-3 fatty acids, dark leafy green vegetables, nuts, beans, and lentils, helps to boost our mental health. Also, investing in a good probiotic is essential for gut health. 

   7. Start a gratitude practice.

   Did you know that studies have shown that those who practice gratitude are happier, less stressed, less anxious, and less depressed? I love doing gratitude as part of my morning routine and in the evening before I sleep. When we acknowledge our blessings, we focus our energy on what we have, not what we lack. So try it; you may love it!

   8. Move your body daily. 

   Research shows that people who exercise regularly have lower mental illness rates and better overall mental and emotional well-being. Exercise helps release endorphins that boost our mood, help us sleep better, provide more energy, improve our confidence, and reduce stress.

   9. Reduce stress - yoga, meditation, tai chi, and breathwork.

   I can't say enough about mindfulness practices. They align our mind, body, breath, and spirit. Each of these modalities has been shown to reduce stress and symptoms of anxiety and depression. Mindfulness also trains our brains to be present in the moment and shrinks our amygdala, allowing us to be less reactive. 

   10. Get your blood tested to address deficiencies and get supplement recommendations.

   Several vitamins have been shown to support good brain health. However, asking your primary for a full panel test can reveal deficiencies in vitamins such as Vitamin D, B vitamins, and Folate, which are linked to mental health disorders.  

   Resources: 

• https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/find-help

• https://www.counseling.org/knowledge-center/mental-health-resources

• https://nami.org/Home

• https://www.amenclinics.com

3 daily practices to change your life

“Your life is the expression of the limit of your thoughts.” - Prem Sadasivananda

My dear friend, Prem Sadasivananda, wrote this amazing book Empower Your Life: A Guide To Your Highest Purpose.  I’m studying the book with Prem, examining my own thoughts, and how they’ve impacted my life.  Many of us are living in our own heads and believing thoughts that either paralyze us with fear, or subdue us into a life of mediocrity and complacency.  

There is a statistic that I’ve read several times that highlights the issue.  Experts estimate that the average person has anywhere between 50,000 - 80,000 thoughts per day, or 2,100 - 3,300 thoughts per hour. You know what we’re thinking about?  According to research, the thoughts are repeat thoughts that play like a record over and over again, and as much as 80% of them are negative thoughts. 

We now have the attention span of 8 seconds, basically the same as a goldfish. Negative thoughts, beliefs, and even words that we speak release stress hormones in the body that can manifest physical symptoms and weaken the immune system.  The other challenge with focusing on negative thoughts for most of our waking and sleeping hours is that these negative thoughts that we tell ourselves then lay a foundation for our actions, tendencies, and habits.  

The great news is that we can do something about our thoughts.  We’ve all heard of the placebo effect, which was discovered over 50 years ago.  In trials, patients given sugar pills, saline injections, and sometimes fake surgeries have been shown to improve up to 80% of the time.  

Did you know that there have been more recent scientific studies that have proven that our intentions and words can positively or negative impact living things?  Dr. Masuro Emoto conducted experiments showing the impact of energy on water and rice.  He believes that “human consciousness” can impact the molecular structure of water.  In his experiments he showed how positive words spoken over water could either create beautiful crystallizations or turn the water murky.  He also experimented with taking polluted water and cleaning it through positive affirmations or prayer.  In another experiment on rice, he had three identical containers of rice and water.  For the first container, positive words of affirmation and praise were spoken. For the second container, negative, hurtful words were spoken.  The third container of rice was ignored.  The rice in the first group sprouted and had a pleasant smell. The rice in the second group turned black.  And, the rice in the third group started to rot. 

Other similar studies have been done using plants and apples. The results have been similar.  Our intentions, thoughts and words do matter.  Three things that you can add to your daily routine that will positively impact your overall well-being are meditation, gratitude, and affirmations or mantras.  

Meditation:  

Meditating daily has made a positive impact on my life. As someone who also teaches meditation, I often hear from my clients that they can’t meditate.  They say that they can’t quiet their mind or sit still.  My advice, in the most loving voice, is always the same.  “Don’t wait for your mind to be ready to meditate.  Sit your body down, close your eyes, breathe, and continue doing so for 10 minutes.” Over time, our bodies and mind settle in faster, and we come to enjoy our moments of quiet and solitude.

Benefits of meditating:

• Your brain releases serotonin, dopamine and endorphins – leading to a good mood

• Your blood pressures drops

• Pain decreases – a recent study showed a 40% reduction in pain

• Inflammation and swelling decreases

• Digestion improves - rebooting the parasympathetic nervous system

• American Heart Association issued a statement saying that seated meditation “may help reduce the risk of heart disease by lowering blood pressure and stress”

Gratitude:

Giving thanks, being grateful, and saying thank you for the wonderful things in your life today, is one of the fastest way to improve your energy and lift your mood.  There are many ways to establish a gratitude practice.  Some clients like to keep a gratitude journal. Others incorporate giving thanks in the morning, and then as part of their evening reflection before they go to sleep.  The key is to be consistent, and to go deep.  Remember, no one is reading your gratitude list, so write without judgement.  Strive to add new items to your list daily and notice how your perspective changes on what really brings you true joy, peace and happiness. 

Benefits of giving thanks: 

• Feeling happier

• Becoming a nicer person

• Increased energy levels

• More resiliency and improved health

• Improved relationships

• New life perspective

Affirmations and Mantras:

While expressing gratitude makes us feel good, and is relatively easy to do, writing positive affirmations about ourselves is sometimes very difficult.  In one of my first sessions with coaching clients, I ask them to do a one minute exercise in which they write as many positive things as possible about themselves in 1 minute.  The average number written has been 3-5 on the first attempt.  However, with practice, the same clients generate lists in the double digits.

A mantra is a seed/word for energizing an intention, and over time it bears the fruit of your intention. Mantras have been around for over 3,000 years, and used in many spiritual practices.  Many of the ancient Sanskrit mantras were used for healing, abundance, protection, and good fortune.   Mantras help us focus on those things that inspire and create joy.   Incorporating ancient mantras can help grow your practice. Repeated negative thoughts or spoken words create beliefs and behaviors that don’t serve us well. However, choosing to speak positive affirmations or mantras can calm our nervous and respiratory systems, and change our energy. 

Benefits of doing daily affirmations or mantras:

• Stimulates the right and left side of the brain to help move from beta state (super focused) to the theta state (relaxed)

• Reduces stress

• Increases energy levels

• Improves overall well-being

• Enhances capabilities, strengths, talents by focusing on positively expressing your abilities

• Positively affect actions, behaviors and attitudes

• Promotes feelings of gratitude

Challenge:

Making positive changes doesn’t have to be overwhelming if you start with small steps daily.  Incorporating meditation, gratitude and affirmations or mantras into your daily routine is a great first step towards improving your holistic health.

• Find a place to meditate daily and start doing so for 10 minutes per day

• Start a daily gratitude practice by writing down as many things you are grateful for in 1 minute

• Start a daily affirmation practice by writing down as many positive affirmations in 1 minute

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