The New Roaring 20s

The New Roaring 20s

2020 and a new decade is almost upon us. We’ve lived 3,650 days, 87,600 hours, or 5,256,000 minutes in the past decade, yet remember a fraction of the days we’ve lived. All of my significant memories of the past decade were personal and experiential. This decade, I commit to being more mindful in the present moment, expressing gratitude daily for my blessings big and small, letting go of things that don’t matter, and living each daily fully. Let’s make the 2020s the best decade yet, and the new roaring 20s!

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Courage to be seen

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Courage to be seen

There is power in listening and seeing another human being. And, there is freedom in allowing others to see us.

I just attended one of the best conferences I’ve ever been to.  As someone who has put on many conferences in my career, I say this knowing that these things don’t happen spontaneously.  They happen as a result of thoughtful planning, impeccable execution, great content, and dynamic speakers.  Yet, even these elements don’t always guarantee the results we sometimes hope for.  The Courage to Succeed conference put on by The Federal Reserve Bank of Cleveland and Ratliffe & Taylor had something else - authentic connections, real dialogue, a masterful facilitator who wove the content together, creativity, and a little bit of magic from the 200+ participants in the room. 

The tone was set very early in the morning by the conference organizers when they asked that we “purposefully listen, deliberately engage, share our stories, and celebrate others’ stories of courage.”  We listened intently as Loretta Mester, the President and CEO of the Federal Reserve of Cleveland, humbly shared her own story and challenged us to be the best versions of ourselves, to make others who don’t fit in feel comfortable to contribute, and to surround ourselves with people who are smarter than we are so we can continuously learn and grow.  

We then broke for a table exercise where we were asked to answer “who are you?” Not, where do you work, what is your title, or how many degrees do you hold? So, we didn’t recite the words on our business cards, our resumes, or our LinkedIn profiles. Instead, we shared aspects of our real selves, and we were vulnerable and compassionate, and that built trust.  Our responses required us to drop our masks, take off our armor, and be authentic.  It’s amazing how quickly we can connect to another human being when we strip off all of the protective layers we wear. 

We listened intently to amazing women share from the stage their own stories of courage to be vulnerable, courage to be the only one, courage to declare their desire, courage to stay, and courage to be authentic. Throughout our time together we leveraged our newfound camaraderie and creativity to contribute to poems and pieces of art that will be displayed at the Federal Reserve building as a reminder of the time we spent together.

What I didn’t experience or see at this conference were forced conversations, painful networking, or people on their phones hiding in corners conducting “business”. I saw and experienced genuine connections, and that was so refreshing and energizing.

There is power in listening and seeing another human being.  And, there is freedom in allowing others to see us.  Imagine the impact we could each have in our personal relationships, our work environments, and our communities if we intentionally choose to live our lives this way. 

Your Body Is Innately Intelligent

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Your Body Is Innately Intelligent

Many of us feel disconnected from that intelligent source, and are overwhelmed and confused by all of the health and nutritional informational available.

I believe that our bodies are innately intelligent, and guide us to making healthy food choices.  Unfortunately, many of us feel disconnected from that intelligent source, and are overwhelmed, and confused by all of the health and nutritional informational available.   

One of my goals this year was to enroll in the Integrative Institute of Nutrition’s Integrative Health Coaching certification program.  I am excited to say that I graduated from the program this month, and am now officially an Integrated Health Coach!  My goal in completing the program was to improve my own life by increasing my knowledge of nutrition, and then to be able to share what I’ve learned with my clients.

My backstory is that I come from a long-line of Eastern European farmers who grew their own food, raised their own livestock, and prepared their meals from scratch.  Even after moving to the United States, my parents and their friends would purchase their poultry from local farmers who raised their animals ethically, and sustainably.   I was raised to understand that we become what we put into our bodies.  

Yet, as I grew, I became a typical kid who wanted to eat school lunches like my friends instead of the ethnic food prepared from home.  I tried Salisbury steak, boxed mashed potatoes, hoagies, ice cream sandwiches, and other lunchtime favorites of the 80s.  Although I was petite for most of my life, I started noticing my body changing in high school, and not in a good way.  

The summer after I graduated from high school, I decided to become a vegetarian, and to begin eating healthy.  The trend at the time was to eat “fat-free”.  My college diet consisted of bagels, cereal, pizza, tomato soup, pasta, french fries, and some fruits and vegetables.  Poor food choices, along with liquid calories, increased my weight to the highest it had ever been. I was also tired all the time, took daily naps, and I didn’t feel great. I was probably nutritionally deficient for all 4 years of college.

After college, I went backpacking across Europe for one month.  The first week into my trip, I ate chicken for the first time in 4 years.  It was hard to be a vegetarian in 1994 in many European cities on a limited budget. So, I ate locally grown food that was available and inexpensive.  My clothes started to fit better, my mood stabilized, and my energy increased.  When I arrived back home I decided to make better choices that would nourish my body.  The year following my graduation my weight naturally adjusted itself to a healthy weight, just by making better food choices.  

Over the years, my weight, and overall well-being would fluctuate based on what was happening in my life.  I was my healthiest when I listened to my body, and nourished it with foods that were medicinal for me.  I felt my worst when I disconnected from my body, and made choices I knew would make me feel sick. I compensated for eating what I wanted by working out harder.  I ran long distance, lifted, did HIIT workouts, and I did power yoga.  I tracked my food in different apps, joined Weight Watchers, went back to the Zone Diet, dusted off the South Beach Diet book, tried Paleo, then Keto, etc. I didn’t get healthier, I just had more injuries, became frustrated, exhausted my adrenals, and raised my cortisol levels.

This year, I decided to take better care of myself by practicing some self-love and acceptance: 

  • Stopped tracking my food. I decided to eat when I was hungry, and eat foods that made me feel good. 

  • Started to “crowd-out” bad choices by incorporating more leafy greens into my diet.

  • Ate less animal products, eliminated sugar, reduced my dairy intake, and experimented with more plant-based recipes. 

  • Prepared soups with fresh vegetables and beans, and ate more healthy fats. 

  • Stopped intense workouts that were hurting me. 

  • Added in a daily, outdoor morning walk where I could think, and enjoy nature.

  • Continued with my healing yoga classes. 

  • Became very protective of my daily meditation, affirmation, and gratitude practice.

The result is that I am the healthiest and happiest that I have ever been.  

If you’d like to make positive changes in your health,  and stop the vicious cycle of dieting, I’d love to work with you.  Together, we will identify your health and wellness goals, examine your barriers to success, and teach you how to establish life-long health habits. 

Contact me for a free consultation.